IDENTIFY AND RESOLVE THE UNDERLYING ISSUES THAT CAUSE
REMODELING STRESS AND OTHER HOME IMPROVEMENT ISSUES

It is often said that time equals money. They are both one of life's most important resources. Time and money are also the two main issues people cite when they contact me to schedule an appointment.

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Take A Few And Learn How To Save Yourself Hours Of Anger And Frustration

When a couple seeks counseling, it is often because one of the partners feels overwhelmed by all the decision making responsibilities and the time commitment required by the renovation process.

It is not uncommon for this person to feel resentful and angry with the partner or spouse not involved in the day-to-day aspects of the project.

This disparity in time investment and responsibilities can lead to small disagreements, which when left unaddressed often turn into major marital conflicts and disputes.

The remodeling counseling and renovation therapy services I provide can help you and your partner learn the skills necessary to create an open and understanding dialogue that will allow you to resolve marital communication problems so real issues of resentment don't become emotional fuel for discussions about tile and paint colors.

If the underlying issues and interpersonal disputes you and your partner face aren't worked through and resolved decision-making can come to a standstill, which, in turn, leads to additional marital stress and anger, as well as more lost time and money.

Money May Not Buy Happiness, But It Can Cause A Lack Of It —
Overcoming The Financial Issues Of Home Remodeling

Additional problems commonly arise during home improvement projects when the people involved aren't clear with their partners or contractors about priorities and what aspects of the home remodeling project are "non-negotiable" for them.

Given the arbitrary nature of remodeling budgets, and the large sums of money being spent, it is not uncommon for extreme emotional reactions to be triggered when financial resources begin to dwindle. For example, if one partner finds something essential to the home that the other person doesn't, an argument may erupt that often feels more personal than is intended.

One or two practical, directed discussions about individual core values, "non-negotiables," and the realities of working within a limited budget can save couples from countless arguments and conflicts.

Solutions Counseling for Home Remodeling can teach you the necessary skills to approach marital and renovation disputes from a different, more understanding angle, allowing you to work through and resolve any conflicts with grace and compassion. The time and money required to learn these skills are nothing compared to the dividends your marriage will receive in the time and money you save. Not only in regards to your remodeling project, but in all areas of your life!

Bringing In A Third Party — Resolving Contractor Issues And Disputes

Each homeowner-contractor relationship develops its own individual "personality." Whether you or your partner is experiencing issues with your remodeling contractor, Solutions Counseling for Home Remodeling can help.

In just a few short sessions, you can learn how to resolve surface disagreements and explore the deeper aspects of each individual's opinion, allowing your partner and you to communicate with each other and your contractor with more clarity and conviction.

Remodeling counseling and renovation therapy can help you build a stronger working relationship with your partner and your contractor so that each interaction moves your renovation project closer to a positive end.

You can turn your remodeling project from a nightmare into a creative, rewarding, and fun process. Make your dreams come true! When time means both money and marital peace of mind, please don't hesitate to contact me for more information or to schedule an appointment, 650-462-5919 or coxbr@aol.com.